The first issue we'd like to address is your self-esteem.
Often, a child who was teased and made fun of carries into adulthood those painful feelings of humiliation, inadequacy, and not fitting in.
But alas, I had tremendous problems getting and keeping a job.
The only jobs I could get were almost always temporary positions.
Some people seem to have an innate ability to figure out how to use computer programs, just as some people seem to have a natural ability to relate to others.
The vast majority of the population can become computer-literate after they receive a small amount of instruction and observe people with computer know-how, just as most people develop social skills by getting advice from parents, teachers, or peers and by modeling how they see others behave.
They may begin their adult lives in a location where there are few Jewish men or women to date.The rest of the population may believe they are either technologically challenged or socially challenged, but it is usually just a matter of needing to learn these skills differently.They may benefit from more intensive instruction that other people, but eventually they pick up on the basics.Dear Rosie & Sherry, I am a 36-year-old man and have never been involved in any serious dating. I fear that my chances of being married and having children are almost nil. I was an unpopular kid in high school, getting picked on constantly and not fitting in.The only friends I had were other unpopular kids who were isolated from the mainstream. I was a nerd without the academic ability -- a terrible combination.