How to tell kids about dating after a divorce
But it's also tough, she adds, because once you're on the dating scene you can feel like a teenager again, in that shaky, unconfident, not-sure-if-he'll-call sort of way.
So how can you make post-divorce dating — whether you're looking for a good time or a good (relationship-minded) man — less daunting?
Below are some general considerations for how to introduce a new significant relationship to your children.
This is not an exhaustive list and cannot cover all the possible variables that may be true about your life.
• Reassure them that you will not bring someone into the family unless you feel comfortable that they can fit in.
Your children may perceive a new person in your life as someone who could not only interrupt that reconciliation, but interfere with your time with your them as well.• Give your children time to adjust to their new situation.Sometimes parents try to take care of their own feelings of loss by dating shortly after beginning to live apart, but this is one of those times when considering the needs of your children should be a priority.It was not an easy decision to leave and change the life your children grew up with.There have been many logistical issues and emotions to deal with as you have organized new living arrangements. They may worry that, if their parents can stop loving each other, then how hard would it be for either parent to stop loving them?