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It isn't realistic, because if you live in this area you have to be able to make quite a bit of money — it's very expensive.
It's actually the other way around: There are definitely very accomplished older professional women here.
I'm a lawyer and I work a lot too; most tech guys I meet put in as many or more hours as I do.
" On dates, guys wear flip-flops, shorts, and jeans. Guys who are successful, who dress up, are good-looking, and who aren't socially awkward are a rare breed. There are some like that in Silicon Valley, but I find a lot in San Francisco.
It's what they wear to work, so they think it translates to date attire — just wearing their scrubby clothes. I've been on dates with guys you would say are the "whole package," and while they're with you they literally look at other women as they walk away.
Most of the men went to Ivy League schools, are ambitious, and came out here because it's the mecca of the tech world. A lot of people in the Valley have started meeting people through salsa dancing — it's really big — and so much social awkwardness comes up. They act like, "Oh my goodness, there is a woman who I'm touching." They get super nervous.
There's a great mix of guys from all over world, and there are interesting types of people to meet. I don't think a lot of guys even interact with women on a consistent basis. It makes it difficult to date someone who doesn't even know how to act in a social context; it's just frustrating. He told me all these things that you wouldn't ever disclose on a first date.