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He’s the Creator of the Universe, so don’t take His name in vain. Shouldn’t I only date people who I could see myself marrying?The Situation: The point of dating is to find a spouse, right? He Says: It doesn’t take a cover letter and résumé to ask a girl out.Neither of those situations are good for our sanity.If a guy shows an interest in you, it’s okay to let him know you like him, too.If you’re not having sex with your girlfriend but you are watching porn, that isn’t chastity. She Says: We’re not just bodies – we’re bodies, hearts, minds, and souls.So it’s important to remember that what we do with our bodies (the way we dress, talk, joke around, date, kiss, etc.) impacts our souls.Break-ups are always tough, but they’re even harder when the person you’ve been dating tells you that they’re ending things because God told them to. Someone once ended things with me by saying, “It’s what God wants” – and I can 100% say I’m glad that didn’t work out, but I wish she wouldn’t have played the God card.

The Solution: There are rom-coms and there’s real life, so just try to stay rooted in reality: when a man wants to ask a woman out on a date, he will. We live in a world that treats sex (and other sexual acts) like no big deal, where “as long as you’re in love, it’s okay,” and where you don’t have to go looking for porn, because porn comes looking for you. He Says: We tend, especially as men, to think chastity is just saying no, but it’s so much more than that. It is saying I will respect myself, my family, my girlfriend, my future wife, and my future children.

If I tell a joke to a girl and she laughs, does that mean I’ve messed with her emotional chastity by inadvertently flirting?

Oh no, he sneezed and I said ‘God bless you’ – I hope he doesn’t think I have a crush on him! Be friends with your friends and pursue the women you want to date (one at a time, of course).

Just don’t name-drop God because you think that will hurt the other person less… The Solution: It is important to be a person of prayer and do your best to follow God’s will in all your relationships.

But ALWAYS be up front with the person that you’re dating: if you don’t want to date them anymore, don’t date them anymore.

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